Practical, downtoearth help with real life concernsThe most affordable fees ( see Sessions and Fees page )Real results that make a differenceWhen we?re feeling stuck or when we?re doing something troubling, it?s easy to fall into the trap of believing, either that we?ve failed or that there?s something wrong with us. This idea surrounds us in our culture, so it?s easy to see why we think that, but our behavior and our feelings do make sense. They are effective solutions to some concern. They just aren?t finished yet. We?re dealing with some concern in a way that has side effects, sometimes huge side effects. But you see that?s the nature of human life. We solve problems and each solution is never final, but always needs correction and improvement in the next situation.Two of the giants of modern therapy are Milton Erickson and Robert Shaw. Erickson said, Every behavior is an attempt to solve a problem or to reach some legitimate goal. Shaw said, People generally believe they have a problem, when what they have is a solution to an earlier problem.I begin by recognizing that you don more... See more text